This is the fifth in a multi-part series from After Hours about anal play. You can see the other posts in the series as they come out here. Anal sex is pretty polarizing. No one is going to force you to try anal, but there are a few compelling reasons to give it a go:.
2. You absolutely, positively need to use lube.
1. You should probably start with a finger or two.
If you've ever asked people how they feel about anal sex , you already know that's a divided topic. Wild myths and societal taboos tend to do that. But isn't it fun to dispel myths and engage in as many taboos as possible? I think so. Also anal sex feels really good. That may have something to do with the fact that people with vulvas who have anal often and enjoy it , just might be a little bit more open-minded and adventurous. Anal sex feels different for everyone. Like, you almost don't even want to breathe or sneeze because you're afraid of what might happen and you're just this huge ball of unhappiness and tension? You can't enjoy anything in the world and you can't concentrate? Here are eight hacks to make anal sex better, like way better.
Relationships, like produce, milk and reality television stars, have a shelf life. Most couples find that after a few weeks, months, or years, the luster fades and the initial carnal fury that brought them together has dissipated. The moldy codgers who get past this sexual brick wall do so by developing an elaborate series of coping mechanisms. Infidelity is common in scenarios where one or both sexual partners become fed up with plain vanilla missionary. Sometimes, the couple just resigns themselves to erotic entropy, and embraces a sort of marital celibacy typified by the nightly ritual of 'reading magazines' or 'checking the scores on ESPN.
I first wondered about how to prepare for anal sex when I was in college. I was 21, an age when everything is sort of do-or-die, especially regarding love. I had a couple of friends who had tried anal sex, but I judged them ruthlessly for it. Anal sex was something I decided I would just never, ever do. Then my boyfriend, my darling, my love, the man I planned to be with until I died, suggested we try anal too.