He sealed my husband and I on our wedding day. You should ask yourself if you want to have input on the way your children are raised. Thoughtful, Meaningful Content Posts are moderated for content according to the following guidelines hit report on violations: Welcome to Reddit, the front page of the internet. I've been in a similar situation before. Do what feels right. Do not expect anything long term. I would not fear as much as she does, but that is her reality. You need to disabuse them of this notion.
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What you are potentially choosing is certainly not the easiest path. I was going to be alone in the marrige working hard and planning for the two of us whiles my wife's emotions and energy was spent on other people. But it is luck of the draw. But that parent-child relationship was bound to change anyways as you become an adult. While dating is a good time to get to know someone, if you are young it is better to go on group dates. She is considered "an old maid" by Mormon standards, so she may be willing to marry you--hoping you will convert someday --but she will constantly be reminded that your marriage is inferior to the "Eternal Families" of sealed Mormons, and she will fear dying and never seeing her loved ones again. Lonliness is hard no matter the reason for it. Keep in touch, keep it light and understand he is under a lot of pressure right now. These are also only the American statistics. I will, and have said before that is is one of the worst decisions to marry a doctor also.
Racial differences can be very trivialвthey really didn't come up much for my parents, for exampleвand are basically false differences. She may have served a mission as an ultimatum to herself. Maybe that is why I am grouchy and can't cheer when my husband becomes a director for yet another board at the hospital. I know from my own experience that God has the answers and that He speaks to those individuals who humbly seek Him.
The date night strategy is a great idea, and we have tried it, but he is sometimes on call every other night for a month and it makes it tough the nights he's on call he likes to be home just in case and the nights he's not on call, he needs to sleep in case he's up all night the following night. Interestingly, my parents felt the same way about him. Even after that, the Church discourages youth from entering serious relationships before they are considering marriage. Be specific every time you ask. And if you do belong to a ward full of cretins, you must do everyone a favor and just ignore them until they go extinct. Be open to the wisdom the Spirit will share. The man presides over everything.