You know that iconic moment when Oprah gave away a car to everyone in the audience? And you get to try anal! Sound crazy? Or actually like Crocs! And there's a reason: It feels good. It can even be orgasmic. That's thanks to a combo of sensitive nerves around the anus and the fact that anal penetration directly stimulates the A-spot and can indirectly hit the G-spot , she says. If you've never explored anal before, but are intrigued which I'm guessing you are, since you're reading this first check out this guide on How to Prepare for Anal Sex, According to Experts and then circle back. If you're already part of the club, welcome. Regardless, this selection of anal sex positions offers something for all levels.
How to have an anal orgasm
Everyone wants that! Sit in a chair and have your partner put two fingers on either side of your clitoris, scissoring their fingers together while gently licking or sucking the tip of your clit. Not only does this allow for deeper penetration, but you can have them knead or spank your butt for improved orgasm. Bouncing off your partner can create a feeling that some women find to be super intense in a good way, obvs and leaves the external part of your clit exposed and ready to be stroked with a finger or toy, adds Steinberg. Have your partner thrust into you while they kneel and grab your hips so your thighs rest on their lap. Meanwhile, you go to town on your clit with your favorite vibe, for a nearly foolproof way to ensure you get yours too or three times or four. Think regs spoon sex but deeper and hotter by moving the party to the couch and hooking your top leg over the top of the cushions. It also allows your bodies to be close and generate warmth and intimacy, says Rachel Needle , PsyD, a licensed psychologist and certified sex therapist in West Palm Beach, Florida. Another good couch position, the Armchair Traveler has you on your knees and bent over, holding onto the couch arm while your partner enters you from behind. If you want to take control, you can also have your partner stay still while you thrust backward into them, using the couch arm for leverage while you thrust.
What is an anal orgasm?
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Good news: Anal sex is becoming less and less taboo. Anal sex provides a different kind of fullness and, with the right partner, can be really, truly intimate especially if it's a first for both of you. Of course, not every woman is going to be into anal I mean, is any sex act a universal turn-on? But many women are here for it, and some can even have full-on anal orgasms. With the right positions and a few helpful pointers, you could be one of them. If it's your first time, check out this anal sex guide from Engle for some solid tips. The skimmed version: You can and should warm up with your fingers, lube is your absolute best friend do NOT pass go without it , and never switch from butt to vag because bacteria, people! Now that that's all out of the way, here are the best 15 anal sex positions to try when you're ready.